Dude, it doesn't matter if your are skinny or ripped, getting a girl comes down to confidence. Just be yourself and be confident in yourself. If she doesn't like you, then whatever, you are 16, wait till you see how many girls you meet in college. The definition of "cool" is simply being comfortable with who you are. When people see that, they will be drawn to you because you are not trying to be something your not.
That being said, go lift weights for yourself, like zack and the others said. Don't worry about some girl. And finally, it helps if you talk to her a lot over time instead of trying to make one good impression at a party. You'll learn over the next 5 years or so that after college, most of the 'cool' kids in high school aren't cool anymore. and the cool people are just the people who are comfortable with themselves. so just be yourself, whether it is a big guy or a little guy, short or tall, smart or dumb, whatever. |