the girl who treated me like shit, that was over a year relationship (me taking alot of her shit). but i love her, that has never altered one bit, i still care for her with all of my heart but she just didnt feel the same. everyone goes through this shit, but you realize, if your a genuine guy, there is someone out there who will see you for you, appreciate you as much as you appreciate her, and will work with you to keep your relationship going. it cant just be one person taking the others bullshit and dealing with it, both couples need to work on it, thats how marriages fail, they both aren't working to make it last, they just give up and thats what leads to divorce's. when people say, "oh it just didn't work out", that typically means they just didn't want it too, well one of the couples didnt want it too. whether it be something better coming along for someone, or something happening. that spark you feel when you first meet someone you truley like will fade as does everything else, but what really makes relationships work is both couples truley caring for the others well being. i dont know i sound like a fruit but ive been through so many relationships with so many different types of girls, and yet, as different as they all are, they are all the same. |