Ok Need Some Advice ASAP!!!

**rIPPDUP** · 08-31-2007, 07:25 PM

Ok you guys out there, i'm in a bit of a pre-marital quarrel. my parent's being the generous folk that they are told me today that for my college graduation present they are taking my fiance and i on a 9 day eastern Caribbean cruise. when i told my fiance this, she FLIPPED out (she was really really pissed off) because my mother didn't communicate this gift with her. Now we're in a huge fight because Heather (my fiance) basically insulted me by saying that she would never want to go on a vacation with my family. I mean c'mon!?! What a bunch of Bullshit. What should i do honestly, i need your opinions. i'm so pissed i'm actually thinking about calling off the wedding and just ending the relationship. Tell me what you think. the whole thing boils down to how ungrateful she is when people do things for her, but at the same time she things everyone should kiss her ass and do whatever she says.

skeptic · 08-31-2007, 07:30 PM

why is she pissed? I understand women as much as i understand Quantum Physics man...

It obviously sounds like your parents tried to make it a surprise for both of you!

**rIPPDUP** · 08-31-2007, 07:31 PM

exactly man she's mad that my mother didn't ask her if she wanted to go on it first, how freakin' stupid is that?

skeptic · 08-31-2007, 07:33 PM

hahahaha has it only just happened? i mean, has she had time to cool off or antyhing to maybe think about how stupid shes being (no offence intended man, but it seems a bit strange)

**Freak** · 08-31-2007, 07:41 PM

Does she not get along with your family or is it that she doesn't want to go on vacation with your family?

If she doesn't like or get along with you family that is probably a sign of trouble. If she just doesn't want to go on vacation with them I could understand.

If she is just pissed SHE wasn't notified she sounds like a high maintenance bitch.

Hope this helps.

**rIPPDUP** · 08-31-2007, 07:56 PM

does it help that she's hates my family for whatever reason (my family are the nicest people...we're italian so you know there's food and conversation and good times) she doesn't want to go on vacation with my family bc she thinks its not romantic and she is high maintenance bud, if you only knew. lets just say i have 4 grand worth of credit debt because of her

KEN777 · 08-31-2007, 08:16 PM

your mother meant well but it back fired..Heather doesnt want to go on a cruise with her boyfriends mother..lol..plus u arnt married yet...

**Freak** · 08-31-2007, 08:26 PM

There are a few more things to think about.

Is this for your honeymoon or totally separate?

When did this occur? Have you both had time to sleep on it?

Good luck!

Mygeeto · 08-31-2007, 08:42 PM

i would tell her to fuck up and stop acting childish
if she dosnt want to be with your family, let alone when they are shouting a holiday, then she aint your kinda girl.
me personaly, just like you rippd, i would call off the relationship too.
noone insults me or my family like that and they shouldnt do it to you either.
get rid of her

**rIPPDUP** · 08-31-2007, 09:14 PM

another thing she tries to turn this whole situation around on me and make me feel like shit because my family offered her a fucking 2000 dollar vacation i swear I've never seen such disrespect and a sheer lack of a brain

skeptic · 08-31-2007, 09:37 PM

it sounds like shes way too high maintenance bud... Fair enough if you love her, but no girl who treats you like that is worth a 4k credit debt and a 2k vacation lol IMHO... Id probably consider callign it all off for that too, but that might be a little to brash.

Has this kinda thing been brewing for month? i mean, is she always bitchy towards your parents?

**rIPPDUP** · 08-31-2007, 09:38 PM

seriously though i'd rather take any one of you guys and i never even met you. She's the most miserable person i've ever met. she'd bring the whole vacation down anyway.

skeptic · 08-31-2007, 09:39 PM

i just hope your not the whipped kinda guy :P