Ok Need Some Advice ASAP!!!

**Kirk** · 09-01-2007, 08:09 AM

^^ well said

**rIPPDUP** · 09-01-2007, 09:25 AM

hELLO Boys... what justin did not tell u about this whole situation is that when we were going to look at places for our wedding his mom said she was coming out. So itook off the whole weekend to spend time with her and include her in our special day. She totally blew me off and said she didnt know ne thing about it. I am happy about the trip I just think it was inconsiderate to expect me to take time off and not talk to me about it. I had talked to her about her schedule to come visit in pittsburgh she could of had the respect for me. I feel that she is trying to ruin our relationship and has the time to plan a trip but cant take 2 days to be included on a day that is only mine and Justins. She has control over him and now she seems to think thatll she have the same control over me and when shes says were doing something I have to do it. Not to mention I get deathly ill on boats! She did not take that into consideration. So thats the rest of the scoop since he failed to tell u my side of the story. I shouldnt of reacted the way I did but I was hurt that she seems to care more about a vacation then helping us plan our wedding.

**rIPPDUP** · 09-01-2007, 09:26 AM

another note....I dont want him to choose me over his mom but I think if Im to be his wife I should be equally important and he shouldnt choose everything she wants over me constantly turns should be taken.

skeptic · 09-01-2007, 09:39 AM

wow... that was random. Is anyone else gobsmacked?

skeptic · 09-01-2007, 09:59 AM

im also rather aroused

**kenney** · 09-01-2007, 10:25 AM

im not totally following but rIPPDUP, you and your fiance are obviously having some problems. you should sit down and talk to her, by 'talk' i mean no arguing, no raising your voice etc. tell her exactly how you feel. talk to her about how you can BOTH improve your relationship and do whatever you can to meet them targets. if you relationship means alot to you, you will do everything in your power to save it. good luck bro

**YM123** · 09-01-2007, 11:07 AM

personally i think you should get rid off her, she has treated you like a rite c**t. how can someone be annoyed when they have been told they are going on a cruise. its ballshit mate, get rid of her or you could have this for the rest of your life

**kenney** · 09-01-2007, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by yes_man_123

personally i think you should get rid off her, she has treated you like a rite c**t. how can someone be annoyed when they have been told they are going on a cruise. its ballshit mate, get rid of her or you could have this for the rest of your life

i would say the same but i dont think you can judge someone without meeting them or hearing both sides of the story

**Kirk** · 09-01-2007, 11:28 AM

wow, get on this morning and the fiance' sends us boys a message... what kenney said is true, have a sit down and dont jump down each others throats, talk to each other about what you both want out of the relationship, and how to fix it...that's whats going to get you two through this, IF this is what you want ripped

**kenney** · 09-01-2007, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by kirklab

wow, get on this morning and the fiance' sends us boys a message... what kenney said is true, have a sit down and dont jump down each others throats, talk to each other about what you both want out of the relationship, and how to fix it...that's whats going to get you two through this, IF this is what you want ripped

ahhh so thats what the post was about...man rIPPD you are in the doghouse lol

**Kirk** · 09-01-2007, 11:36 AM

lol^^^ hahahaha, nice kenney