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I kow this sounds juvinile but im thinking of fighting a co-worker
Old 10-24-2006, 03:36 AM   #1
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Me = huge bber. Co worker = some guy who barely works out and think s he is soooooooooooo cool. He was a buddy but now everything i say he mocks. But, he only does it when there are other people around, he does it to show off and make me look bad because he feels threatened by me obviously. So what to do? I cant go on like this. Beat him down next time he embarasses me? Throw him around abut just to shake him up? I know the right thing to do would be to tell him how i feel and say not to do that i dunno. i work side by side with him a lot so when this all goes down its gonna be ackward either way unless one of us gets fired.

Bottm line is he knows he bothers me. He knows i dont like him anymore. he keeps doing it. i can only brush this off for so long. i am on cycle right now and ready to tear someones head off as it is. Beating him down would be like taking candy from a baby. Actually there are 3 of them who do it, and beating all three of them down would be like taking candy from a baby.

should i just say fuck it all and beat them down next time they make fun of me? they make fun of everyone and everyone would be so happy even the boss.
am i just being a meathead? iv been known to do that.
 
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Old 10-24-2006, 04:07 AM   #2
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generally, i'd say beat the living shit out of him/them, but i dont want you to lose your job. i get the same shit by a number of other "bodybuilders" at school (and by fags in general). it happened today too i might like to add (and this day, for my own personal reasons was a very bad day, i was on edge and was clearly not in the mood for taking shit..so what happened today? some punk called me a name from the safety of his classroom, through a window. well he was mistaken about the safety bit. i stopped dead in my tracks, looked him dead in the eye, marched towards the dorr, then threw the door open, marched in, ripped him up outa his chair and slapped him across the face a few times, in front of his mates and whole class. he was scared shitless, himiliated, embarrased, and nearly pissed himself for real.)

anyway, generally i would not have gotten away with that but under the curcumstances (eg: the personal home issue i have atm) i did.
sometimes u can get away with shit. but dont take the risk when it comes to employment. if he's calling you small or w.e just say something sarcastic like "yeh im really patheticly weak.. i need to bench ur mum more, how bout i superset ur mum with ur sister" something like that, u get the drift
if ur working with and around girls when this happens, do it with confidence. they'll love that and it will make him look like a wanker in front of them, which will damage his ego and resolve a tad more.
sarcasm is how i deal with shitheads when the conventional method is not an option. you could give it a try?
 
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Old 10-24-2006, 04:42 AM   #3
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read the bold shit first, then the regular stuff..makes more sence that way lol
 
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Old 10-24-2006, 05:52 AM   #4
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this guy sounds like he's feeling threatened by you. because he cant build his body up like yours he's having to resort to name calling and piss taking its pathetic.

next time he or the rest start there shit get on to them about there weedy arms or his lack of size and how pathetic he looks!! slag everything, his clothes, hair, voice thats always a good one if he keeps saying the same kinda of stuff, repeat it after him. or if he's carrying anything you know"hey steady on dude, you might get a hernia carrying that! even if its just an envelop or a parcel. have an answer for these people and always say it with confidence. after this, in a few weeks they'll realise that your not gonna just stand there and take it, get board and start on someone else.
remember your on a cycle and were always a bit strung up, deep breath, be cool and just smile and laugh, it's not worth getting sacked for a bunch of wee cunts.
 
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Old 10-24-2006, 06:15 PM   #5
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The only solution is to get bigger man. But whatever you do...please don't reinforce the 'I'm on a cycle so I'm gonna go nuts'. Makes gear users everywhere look bad man.
 
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Old 10-25-2006, 03:41 AM   #6
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its got worse. he tells me i smell. he makes fun of the restaurants and bars i go to. he makes fun of the way i talk. he predents to talk super slow and repeats what i say. and him and his bum buddy whisper about me.

i cant handle this kid anymore. all he does is talk shit about everyone to his one bum buddy. he gosspis and whispers all day and i cant take it. if hes alone with me and no ones there he helps me and pretends to be my friend. anyways long story short if i do knock him out what happens to me? (oh ya and there is absolutly no chance he will hit me even once.) i have at least 80 lbs and like a foot taller than him, i am athletic etc hes a bitch. hes pushed me, and pushed me, and pushed me. thats it. hes done. so do i have to go to jail or what? i know it sounds like a stupid questions but i have no time for this shit. i work full time im in school full time and i volunteer plus work out i have less than zero free time to be sitting hear on the internet chatting about this bull shit.

i guess the reason i am so confused is that im huge. im tall. im intimidating looking. the point is i have never been bullied ever. thats why i dont know what to do. i seriously think this kid thinks he is tougher than me. it is mind boggling.
 
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Old 10-25-2006, 06:54 PM   #7
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1: Be a little more humble man. If you gotta tell everyone how 'huge' you are then you aint that huge.
2: Knock his ass out. Or at least throw him around a lil just to rattle him.
 
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Old 10-25-2006, 11:07 PM   #8
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when you and the guy are alone talk to him, and tell him you need to relax with all the sh!t talking, and if that doesnt work then maybe the next step would be what you want to do now wich is kick some ass, but you gotta think if its worth losing your job over it
 
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Old 10-26-2006, 06:41 PM   #9
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whatever happens, dont hit him!! it sounds like your a little stressed about other shit aswell as.

he does sound like a wee **** and any other time i would say f###in knock him out, but you WILL LOSE YOUR JOB and probably end up in court with assault charge, even jail!! No Money and other hassel you dont need.

he aint worth it, give it back take the piss out of him and his ****** friends, stand up for yourself verbally, dont be a soft touch. And if all that fails then get another place to work.
 
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Old 10-26-2006, 09:10 PM   #10
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whatever happens, dont hit him!! it sounds like your a little stressed about other shit aswell as.

he does sound like a wee **** and any other time i would say f###in knock him out, but you WILL LOSE YOUR JOB and probably end up in court with assault charge, even jail!! No Money and other hassel you dont need.

he aint worth it, give it back take the piss out of him and his ****** friends, stand up for yourself verbally, dont be a soft touch. And if all that fails then get another place to work.
then come back and fuck his face up!
 
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Old 10-26-2006, 09:29 PM   #11
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I'm having problems envisioning this...
What exactly do you do as a profession?

Basically, if you have a problem with a co-worker, go to HR, or maybe your boss.

Neither HR nor your boss will take kindly to you knocking the crap out of a co-woker, no matter how big of a jerk he is.

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Old 10-27-2006, 12:07 AM   #12
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well since i actually started getting big...by that i mean above 270lbs..ppl have never mocked me or anything, but im also a cool dude, and ive never taken roids...me, i would probably grap him and military press him for 6-7 reps, then rest and try to get 3-4 more forced reps...after that would probably do some side laterals with his buddies
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Old 10-27-2006, 12:15 PM   #13
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