Prom

xtweak05 · 05-02-2006, 12:32 AM

May 20th is My g/fs prom. It seems like the closer we get to it the more I dont want to attend. I didnt go to my Junior or Senior prom, I just didnt want to. I may slightly regret not going to my Senior Prom but its the past. I dont want to tell her I dont want to go because her being a girl shes obviously ecstatic while I'm in the corner going "yea, alright". I have almost told her just go with a friend, I cant afford it right now anyway so that would be easier on me but this isnt really about me ya know. Its her prom and so her night, most of you fellow guys probably understand this to some degree.

I'm just venting, I'm frustrated and stressed and whatever.

robcardu · 05-02-2006, 12:37 AM

Dont go man, just let me know the hour and Papicardu will be there with yo girl-a, spreading out his love!!!!

Flex · 05-02-2006, 12:43 AM

I would tell her how you feel about it, but depending on the type of girl your with she could get pissed about it.

tim290280 · 05-02-2006, 01:23 AM

I remember reading a stat about 3/4(?) of high school girls lose their virginity on prom night. I can't see why you'd pass up the sex.

But if the first up sex is not the issue, then imagine the other firsts........

Flex · 05-02-2006, 02:30 AM

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Originally Posted by tim290280

I remember reading a stat about 3/4(?) of high school girls lose their virginity on prom night. I can't see why you'd pass up the sex.

But if the first up sex is not the issue, then imagine the other firsts........

Probably 3/4 of virgins up to the point of prom lose their virginity. No way do 3/4 of high school girls lose it at prom.

I think you should be more specific on why you don't want to go to the prom besides the money.

Lineski · 05-02-2006, 02:52 AM

Prom's one of those things that if you're serious about the girl you should take her, even if you don't really want to. Like you said, it's really her night so if you can put on a smile, have fun, not act bored, and put up with a bunch of highschoolers for a couple hours it'll be good for your relationship in the long run; she definately won't forget it which can lead to fun rewards.

...and if she pisses you off or you're having a really bad time you can always just pick up some other highschool girl and fuck her in the bathroom

MaKaVeLi · 05-02-2006, 02:57 AM

seriously i wouldv regretted not attending the ball (prom) in my final year of high school... i was sorta in your situation being in 2 minds about it but my 2 older sisters convinced me to go. anyhow everything from the pre-ball to the limo ride to the actual event was heaps of fun... imo if you can go with a group of couples it's a whole lot better, and if you can't then who cares just go out and have a blast!

chesticles · 05-02-2006, 03:01 AM

Rocky · 05-02-2006, 03:58 AM

I think you should just go. If it means it to her then what does it matter.Get her drunk and PIITB when she's passed out.

MaKaVeLi · 05-02-2006, 06:27 AM

yes, put it in the butt for us dude!

jornT · 05-02-2006, 06:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Lineski367

Prom's one of those things that if you're serious about the girl you should take her, even if you don't really want to. Like you said, it's really her night so if you can put on a smile, have fun, not act bored, and put up with a bunch of highschoolers for a couple hours it'll be good for your relationship in the long run; she definately won't forget it which can lead to fun rewards.

...and if she pisses you off or you're having a really bad time you can always just pick up some other highschool girl and fuck her in the bathroom

Lineski giving relationship advice? I thought you only played girls?

sammerthehammer · 05-02-2006, 07:15 AM

haha man i was in the exact same situation almost just a while ago. my girl of like 2 years was gettin all excited about prom and i told her i wouldnt be going because i would be preppin for my first show and wouldnt be able to do it. we broke up like a week later.

DaeguDave · 05-02-2006, 09:45 AM

I did not attend my junior nor my senior prom. I was asked by a friend to the latter, but refused stating I didn't want to be a part of something so soulless (in my eyes anyway) unless it was with a GF. Wouldn't you know it I started dating a girl a year behind me soon after and had to attend her senior prom my freshman year of college. In all honesty, it wasn't fun nor was it comfortable to wander around dressed to the nines like we're doing something important.

To my male mind it looks like a rehearsal for a wedding later in the girls' lives. They stand out because of their dress and the guys are all nameless, faceless interchangeable penguins who the girls get to treat as their accessory, like a Louis Vuitton bag that can walk, talk, and perhaps dance.

And I'm not sure where the idea that prom was the night to "do it" on came from (Hollywood, maybe), but I can assure you none of the six couples in my limo got laid that night. I got a goodnight kiss (we'd been dating just under a year, got to love evangelical Christians who say no sex before marriage and mean it. But at this time the girl was a good looking 110lb with long blonde hair. Last time I saw her she'd hacked her hair off, gained 40-50lb and had lost her face, so as useless as I am I was her best shot) and the most interesting part of the night was watching one idiot girl get drunk and urinate in a kitchen drawer.

If you care for her, just suck it up and do it I guess. It's just one of those things you have to do even though you'd really rather find a way out of it.