Girls dont like Pro bodybuilders

XTRMMUSCLEMASS · 03-25-2008, 03:38 PM

girls dont like pro bodybuilders!! is that true? or is it like it differs from person to person, there are probably something like 20 ppl that know me really close like family relatives and friends, that tell me not to transform my physique into like a pro bodybuilder because they are disgusting and girls dont like them, ( i have pictures of ronnie in my school binder and whenever my friends see it they say ohh man thats ugly why do you want to be like that ?) they say girls wont like you or things like that and i answer them im not doing this to get girls like me, im doing what i love.

so far i havnt seen anybody that would say keep doing what you are doing all i have heard in this 1 year was negative things. its really disappointing ! I want to be a freak, i want to have a body that i dream right now, because i know i will feel really good to have that body IMO. it takes time and i m patient , it takes dedication and i have it. you are only going to live 1 life so why not do things you want before it gets late?

**ZackKnight** · 03-25-2008, 03:42 PM

have you seen the girls at the BB/fitness shows? they love the lifestyle and they love the look. Others enjoy it too.

Most people look at us as freaks, and that's what we are. Freaks. But I'd rather be a freak than ordinary.

There's nothing worse than being ordinary

XTRMMUSCLEMASS · 03-25-2008, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by ZackKnight

have you seen the girls at the BB/fitness shows? they love the lifestyle and they love the look. Others enjoy it too.

Most people look at us as freaks, and that's what we are. Freaks. But I'd rather be a freak than ordinary.

There's nothing worse than being ordinary

I agree with you zackknight yes i have seen the girls, but really pro bodybuilder

dont do it for girls they do it for themselves. its too bad that many ppl think that

if you are bodybuilding you are doing it for girls. its actually sad

**EastCoast Highlander** · 03-25-2008, 03:55 PM

my gf loves me being huge, thats one of her reasons she was initially attracted to me over before we engaged in convo

**ZackKnight** · 03-25-2008, 03:57 PM

i completely agree. there's no reason to do this unless it's for yourself.

also, all of the g/f's ive ever had have loved my body and me being huge for being so short. they love the mass and the cuts.

**Thomas_Rivera** · 03-25-2008, 04:14 PM

You know. You get all this shit about "it's what on the inside that matters" like i've heard more girls say "it's more important about personality" blah blah blah, then they see a 270 pound guy and say "Ewww thats nasty I would never talk to him". ITS HYPOCRACY

<3Frosty · 03-25-2008, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Thomas_Rivera

You know. You get all this shit about "it's what on the inside that matters" like i've heard more girls say "it's more important about personality" blah blah blah, then they see a 270 pound guy and say "Ewww thats nasty I would never talk to him". ITS HYPOCRACY

hahahaha.

I think one of the main reasons that body builders especially can be looked down upon is because of their outer appearance being so loud and dominating, they can come off as being fickle or self absorbed. Indeed, some body builders are self absorbed, but that comes with every liftstyle or profession.

Here is the thing. A recent study showed that women prefer a built and muscular man for a fling, while they prefer a little bit more ordinary build (not skinny, but not jacked) for a long-term mate.

However, if they are initially interested in your looks for the short term and you end up winning them over with your personality, there is obviously a middle ground to be had.

Just realize, in order to become a pro body builder you need to have a strong support system. If your girlfriend doesnt give a shit about fitness or health, you may not get the support you need.

People say opposites attract, but id always contend (and research shows) that this just isnt true. If yall dont have things in common, how would it ever work? If she hates what you love...

**lil_big_junior** · 03-25-2008, 05:21 PM

I got all the honeys LOL.
My gf can't stand me being so big, but she learned to love me for who I is, LMAO

XTRMMUSCLEMASS · 03-25-2008, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by <3Frosty

hahahaha.

I think one of the main reasons that body builders especially can be looked down upon is because of their outer appearance being so loud and dominating, they can come off as being fickle or self absorbed. Indeed, some body builders are self absorbed, but that comes with every liftstyle or profession.

Here is the thing. A recent study showed that women prefer a built and muscular man for a fling, while they prefer a little bit more ordinary build (not skinny, but not jacked) for a long-term mate.

However, if they are initially interested in your looks for the short term and you end up winning them over with your personality, there is obviously a middle ground to be had.

Just realize, in order to become a pro body builder you need to have a strong support system. If your girlfriend doesnt give a shit about fitness or health, you may not get the support you need.

People say opposites attract, but id always contend (and research shows) that this just isnt true. If yall dont have things in common, how would it ever work? If she hates what you love...

I dont have the family support, they dont like me being a freak , they just tell stay like this not bigger, they said the same thing last year when i was 150 lbs " stay like this, this is perfect" lol. i have a girlfriend but she really dont care , and you know im only 17 not really intrested in a long term relationship now , but yes in the future i would like to have some1 who would keep up with me and tolerate this lifestyle wouldnt that be nice!

**Frag Hag** · 03-25-2008, 10:09 PM

Y'know, after reading threads like "bodybuilding women" and that other thread (i think it was "what are your thoughts on this!!" about shemuscle.com) where guys do nothing but bash female bodybuilders, it would be a pretty big double standard if there weren't girls who feel the same way about male bodybuilders. I admit, at times looking like a walking anatomy diagram isn't all that sexy, (though it's impossible to maintain that state for very long anyway) but bodybuilding isn't about the sex! It's about how you live your life, your dream, and taking control over the shape of your body. If a girl can't accept the basic principle that it's your body and you'll do what you want with it, she's not worth keeping anyway.

Yeah, i'm one of those believers that says that appearance means nothing, that it's all about personality and having an intellectual connection. You could say i found the love of my life by being hideous, because no one else would seek a connection with me and look past my appearance. So now when i say that i want to become even more "hideous" (though i think muscle is beautiful in its own way), he supports me and wishes to do the same. It's harder to find someone supportive who can see past the barrier of physical appearance, but once you do, it makes all the loneliness of dodging shallow people worth it. So don't lose heart, follow your dream, and remember that there are tons of fitness babes who you probably have a lot in common with, on a level those puny waifish mortals could never dream of!

**islander** · 03-25-2008, 10:37 PM

One a big muscular guy and a pro bodybuilder are two totally different things. you have to have a pretty awesome partener for one for you to be at a pro level and still have that a steady girlfreind or wife. the time and comment it takes could only be handled by someone who loves you and what you do. if you are this way you are going to attract someone who likes this about you. everyone has there own opinion on what beauty is. as a girl i would say dont even worry about it. do what you love and love will come to you.

lol^ just read 'wafish mortals' your a super gamer girl arnt you frag? hahah fuck the wafish mortals...hmm can i put that in my sig?