Broke up

**kenney** · 01-28-2008, 06:17 PM

cheers man. its much appreciated. Kirk had a good point about us being alot alike lol we are practically the same person but a couple of years difference and opposite sides of the Atlantic

KM · 01-28-2008, 06:21 PM

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Originally Posted by kenney

cheers man. its much appreciated. Kirk had a good point about us being alot alike lol we are practically the same person but a couple of years difference and opposite sides of the Atlantic

I see it. Lots of wisdom being expressed here guys..

wrestlingstalion2 · 01-28-2008, 06:38 PM

i think what alot of people dont get is just because you budybuild. doesnt mean you gotta look grosse man haha. no one minds bodybuilding as long as you dont put youreself out there like a tool like many have before. thats what people hate. the guys who throw themselves out there like theyre these jacked machines. and theyre juicing so no one in the real world cares or respects them. so with that being said. finding a decent chick isnt so hard so long as youre a decent guy. no matter what it is you happen to enjoy or do. and yup ill just say there are better ones. youll be fine

**under construction** · 01-28-2008, 07:53 PM

It may not seem like it now bbdude but believe me if you make a clean and civil break now in a year you may not even remember what you were so sad about and its also possible that you may have some one new by your side that you may like or love even better. Chin up big guy!

**Kirk** · 01-28-2008, 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by kenney

cheers man. its much appreciated. Kirk had a good point about us being alot alike lol we are practically the same person but a couple of years difference and opposite sides of the Atlantic

that we are bro, that we are.

Lil Rocky · 01-29-2008, 01:24 AM

you will learn homie, i had my first love break up with me at 16....it sucks but man now that im in college and have been through all the highschool drama my only words for you are...get used to it! have fun and do whatever the hell you want to do, dont base anything on a female, we are too young!! sorry bout your loss tho, i feel your pain.....now go lift some freakin weight!

**bbdude** · 01-29-2008, 01:28 AM

thanks guys, epsecially kenney who helped me over msn too.. i really appreciate it.

i'll go do some heavy deadlifting after school. if nothing else will put my mind of her, deadlifts will.

You live, You love, and You learn. Thats my motto. thanks kirk for learning me that =)

Im glad you're here at the dungeon you guys

**Thomas_Rivera** · 01-29-2008, 01:45 AM

I'm sorry to hear that man. But I do agree that with the love-age thing. At 15you have a certain outlook on life that's been dictated by a few years of puberty, even at 17 your outlook on love will be different. I know how hard it is to find a woman that likes bodybuilding, and without knowing your GF, how much did she really like bodybuilding? Couldn't it be that she respected you enough that she liked it? And don't you think that you'll be able to find a girl that will respect you enough to like it?

It's part of human psycho development. The way I felt when I broke up with a girl I loved when I was your age is different than the way I felt when I was 17/18, theres a different complexity to it. Ask Chris and any of the older guys about it, even at 25, its different than at 20.

You'll find a new girlfriend, you've got more than enough time to do it. It's not going to seem like that now, it's not gonna look like anything is gonna get better, and thats normal, but it will get better. You'll find someone that makes you just as happy.

**bbdude** · 01-29-2008, 07:29 AM

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I'm sorry to hear that man. But I do agree that with the love-age thing. At 15you have a certain outlook on life that's been dictated by a few years of puberty, even at 17 your outlook on love will be different. I know how hard it is to find a woman that likes bodybuilding, and without knowing your GF, how much did she really like bodybuilding? Couldn't it be that she respected you enough that she liked it? And don't you think that you'll be able to find a girl that will respect you enough to like it?

It's part of human psycho development. The way I felt when I broke up with a girl I loved when I was your age is different than the way I felt when I was 17/18, theres a different complexity to it. Ask Chris and any of the older guys about it, even at 25, its different than at 20.

You'll find a new girlfriend, you've got more than enough time to do it. It's not going to seem like that now, it's not gonna look like anything is gonna get better, and thats normal, but it will get better. You'll find someone that makes you just as happy.

thats pretty well said... girls doesnt like bodybuilding, they respect the person so much so they accept bodybuilding. it all makes sense!

thanks Summoner of the Giant Spider

**Kirk** · 01-29-2008, 09:34 AM

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Originally Posted by bbdude

thanks guys, epsecially kenney who helped me over msn too.. i really appreciate it.

i'll go do some heavy deadlifting after school. if nothing else will put my mind of her, deadlifts will.

You live, You love, and You learn. Thats my motto. thanks kirk for learning me that =)

Im glad you're here at the dungeon you guys

thats what we're here for bro.

**PWRofONE** · 01-29-2008, 10:10 AM

All will be well bbdude. Girls will drive you crazy. Now Im no expert in this field (got in the game late, late bloomer) but I know a couple things. Dwelling or thinking about it is certain to happen, but do things that focus around you like Kirk said. Party, lift, chill with your friends, better yourself, you will probaly find yourself even more and know what you want with life through this. You are so young and have the whole world ahead of you, your gonna have dozens of girlfriends!! Best of luck, everything will be fine.