When my girl and I were first going out, she thought bodybuilders were gross, and when I told her I wanted to be a BB or PL, she almost hit the roof and was all "But...why?" So then I asked "So...you'd rather have a string bean, 98lb weakling, that can't even defend you...as a boyfriend?" "well, no...but..." "Hmm, so what you're saying is that you'd rather have a big, stong boyfriend...that right?" "Well...yeah..." "And if someone's strong...muscle size and definition comes with it usually" "I s'pose..." Then we made a compromise...She teaches me pedicures and manicures and I'll teach her BB (she doesn't have to workout because she's naturally atheletic, so she just has to watch BB movies and shows with me

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